JENIFFER LOPEZ PICTURE

"He makes me slow down and eat lunch, which I used not to do," she says. "We have different philosophies. I've been so disciplined. His process is 'Chill, don't kill yourself.' "Maybe," she suggests, "I've got a martyr thing because I was raised Catholic. But with him I feel like I should relax and slow down. That's a first for me." Seriously, JLo, slow down. You're rich as hell, so you deserve a break today. She doesn't look like she's getting one, though.